As a divorced woman of 33 with three kids my body is not what it use to be. Child birth, gravity and nature has made me less than flattering. You know what I mean, right? I have always been pretty happy with the way I look but I have gained weight over the years and I have developed a good bit of cellulite on my butt and back of my thighs as a lot of women do. I have to admit it does bother me and I have been afraid of the reaction from men to a certain extent. I met a man, not just any man but a great guy and things turned romantic after several months of dating. I had not been with anyone for a very long time and I was a bit nervous about him seeing me naked. I am not the type that dresses provocatively and I have not had many sex partners when compared to most women my age.
The time came and it was great, well better than I could have imagined. Something unique happened though. When we were getting started he said to me “your cellulite is so hot.” I took this as “OMG…. This guy is a complete and total jerk… What have I done and who am I with?” I looked at him and before I could say anything he replied with “No, no, no I didn’t mean it like that… I truly do like it. It makes you real and really turns me on. ” He must have seen that I was shocked when he said that. I thought, oh so you have a cellulite fetish LOL. And then I said it out loud and he replied with a “yes, I guess you could call it that if you wanted to.” We continued and had a very romantic night.
Over the next week I could not stop thinking about what he said. I wanted to ask him about it that next weekend when I saw him. I was curious because I never had heard of someone that was actually attracted to cellulite or let alone had a cellulite fetish. Lucky for him I was in no short supply LOL.
So… You Have a Cellulite Fetish?
Yes I asked him straight up. I wanted to learn more and he replied to me “I don’t know if you would really call it a fetish for cellulite but I like the way it looks and I think it’s beautiful. I love the texture and the way it feels. Really though it just makes you a real woman… I am not into the perfect barbie doll type of women.” I thought that this was really cool and It was nice to be with someone that loved me and my body the way it was. I think that most women sometimes get down on the way they look or concentrate to much on their imperfections.
After talking to him for awhile about it it kinda made sense to me. There are many men out there that are attracted to skinny women, thick women, big women, flat chested and busty women. All men and women find different things attractive or sexy about other people. I may prefer hairy men but my best friend is not into that. Different strokes for different folks I suppose.
Do Other Men Like Cellulite?
I was curious if other men out there felt the same way as my boyfriend did so I turned to Google. I found many forums and questions asking what men think about a woman that has cellulite.
There were all different types of answers from “No, it;s gross” to “It’s kinda hot.” I found that there were a significant amount of men that are attracted to cellulite and a large portion that are not turned off by it or basically indifferent. If this does not make the saying “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” true I don’t know what what would.